My Solo Safari – Overcoming Fear for the Adventure of a Lifetime

Nicole Nietmann shares her story about travelling alone, overcoming fears, and finding lifelong friends on a solo safari in the latest guest post from our series, Reflections from the River.

It all started thinking about what I’d love to do in my holidays. Being from Germany, the typical solo traveller went to Fuerteventura – which was ok, but it didn’t catch my heart.

So, I decided to figure out what makes me happy. In 2024, I went on a road trip from Johannesburg to Cape Town with friends, and my highlight – and I really mean highlight – was the Addo Elephant National Park. Though we only stayed there for a few hours, that place still holds a piece of my heart.

Beyond that, I also have a passion for yoga and mindfulness. But, I thought, is it even possible to combine them? Yoga, mindfulness and elephants – how could I find it all in one place?

I thought about volunteering with elephants, and searched for retreats in Bali. But, what I found just didn´t feel right. Frustrated, I ended up turning to Chat GPT – asking it about retreats in Bali and Hawaii. Its suggestions were good, but still not quite what I wanted. So, I tried again, asking for yoga, mindfulness and more nature. I added that I loved my time at Addo Elephant Park – a place where I felt totally in peace.

From the first moment, I knew this was exactly what I had been looking for.

And that’s when it struck gold. It suggested three lodges to me, but only one stood out. It was Sashwa. From the first moment, I knew this was exactly what I had been looking for. Even so, I was unsure, having never booked a trip like that by myself.

In the end, I wrote them an email, outlining my worries. The response was fast and made me feel so welcomed and safe – thank you Kim! Over several days, she carefully listened to all the thoughts in my head; concerns about travelling alone for 16 nights…

.. what if I get bored and want to do some excursions?

.. what if I’m alone at the restaurant and the other guests feel sorry for me?

.. what if I my English isn’t good enough, and don´t understand anyone?

.. what if I feel alone and can’t leave?

.. what if I packed the wrong things?

Question after question, Kim patiently replied until all my doubts were dispelled. I couldn’t be more grateful for her kindness and reassurance. She also gave me some excellent information sheets, which went through everything from what to pack to how much you should tip.

So, with nothing left to do, I booked my adventure! Three easy flights later, I was back in South Africa. My only concern was whether someone would be waiting for me at my destination. But, I needn’t have worried! Whilst on my final layover in Johannesburg, Dylan messaged to tell me he was already waiting. Feeling grateful, I boarded my last flight with excitement.

After his wonderful welcome, we went on our first mini game drive back to the lodge. Dylan told me all about the lodge, the people, and the friendly staff whilst we spotted elephants, giraffes, and impalas. Even though it was only a transfer, he took time to explain about the animals whenever I wanted to look a little longer.

My fears about being alone at the restaurant disappeared in an instant.

Finally, we arrived at the lodge with a heartfelt greeting by the staff. After a short nap, it was time for dinner. And what a surprise it was! At Nourish, there are lots of small tables, but the main focus is a longer table outside where the guests always sit together. So, my fears about being alone at the restaurant disappeared in an instant. During dinner, Dylan joined us and explained more about Sashwa’s story whilst we enjoyed the delicious food – so pretty that it looked like art.

Over the next two weeks, I loved every safari with Ian – only missing one because of a cold. He radiates calmness and explains everything in detail. When animals come closer, he gently speaks to them until they continue on their way, utterly relaxed. On the walks especially, he would see a flower or a tree and launch into a fascinating story, encouraging us to feel and smell the leaves, stones, and all that crossed our path.

I loved every safari with Ian – only missing one because of a cold. He radiates calmness and explains everything in detail.

Back at the lodge, the staff was so welcoming and friendly – something I have never experienced before and I was so grateful for all of them. It felt like a truly special place where you can calm down, relax and enjoy nature. Time ran so fast that, even in two weeks, I couldn’t do everything I wanted – which was crazy in itself! I loved the yoga and meditations so much, the lessons outside on the deck, and even had a lovely massage.

I’ve realised that people will always cross your path when you do something you love.

In the end, Dylan was completely right. I met friends at Sashwa for life. And I couldn’t be more grateful for that wonderful experience. For anyone who is worried about travelling alone – don’t! I’ve realised that people will always cross your path when you do something you love. For me, it was the best holiday I’ve ever had. Thank you, to everyone at Sashwa!

Words and Photos by Nicole Nietmann